random post

1 thing i dun reali get it now
nowsaday
girls are choosing those guys who are guai/devoted type of guys or guys who are naughty/abit bad bad type of guys?
cos from wat i notice or i seen
mani friends of mine have choose guys who are naughty type de....
just dun get it
but i also seen some of them also break because the cannot tolerate their character
but some people also tell mi that
if u love that person alot
u must learn how to tolerate that person's character or attitude
those that once told mi
80% of them break a few months later
but i rmbered that they tell mi
tolerate is 1 main point
n y ain't they tolerating??
this seriously make mi feel ????

i have 1 example
1 of my friend
choose the second option...(bad bad naughty type)
in a relationship for 3 years
yea
the girl is good in tolerating
during the 3 years
from 2nd year onwards
they just keep quarrelling
n this somehows make their relationship far apart
when they grad
even in same sch
they also break

is this the period when they find the fun moments
n not the serious moments
cos those people i mention that break
in the end found a devoted n abit guai guai type instead
n they lasted happily together instead

so this is a qns in my mind
are they enjoying the fun moments with the second option type of guys
n slowly regret wat they get
cos they had given in too much
which u think its controllable
but in the end the guy control u without noticing it

let mi tell u a true facts i met
lets say i got 10 girl de friends
9 of them choose the second option type of guys
but 80% break in the end
then all of them in the end found a first option type of guy
n they lasted well happily instead

am i lagging behind this world?
or am i still living in a old fashion way of thinking
hmmm
i just think different girls different type of point of view ba